Proverbs 17:9 Whoever would foster love covers over an offense, but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends. (NIV)
When reading Proverbs 17:9, 1 Peter 4:8 came strongly to mind: “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.” I try to embody 1 Peter 4:8, but God has shown His light on some issues on my heart this morning related to Proverbs 17:9 that I know I must deal with.
Proverbs 17:9 Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends. (NLT)
I have mentioned before that perception is often reality (meaning if I perceive you have slighted me, my reality is that slight. Even if it is a misunderstanding on my part, I feel slighted.) Honestly, that is pride: I am putting myself and my feelings above God. I am called to put my pride aside and to love instead and am suddenly reminded of Jesus praying for the soldiers as they cast lots for His clothes instead of calling down curses on them.
Proverbs 17:9 He who covers and forgives an offense seeks love, But he who repeats or gossips about a matter separates intimate friends. (AB)
Lord, Thank You for this day and this scripture. Thank You for helping me to understand that I still have a lot of work to do in this area to be less worldly and more like Jesus. Help me to let go of transgressions and to love Your people even when my pride wants me to stay offended and dwell on slights. Help me to love You and shine Your light above all else. Draw me closer. Amen.
Proverbs 17:9 You will keep your friends if you forgive them, but you will lose your friends if you keep talking about what they did wrong. (CEV)
Have a blessed day.