2 Samuel 16:5 As King David approaches Bahurim, a man from the same clan as Saul’s family came out from there. His name was Shimei son of Gera, and he cursed as he came out.
Once again there is a lot going on in this chapter—deceit, slander, malice. Absalom is out of control, out to get David, and receiving spiteful advice from a bitter yet trusted advisor. And then we have Shimei—cursing David and pelting him and his men with dirt and rocks. But David keeps Shimei and his behavior in perspective.
2 Samuel 16:6 He pelted David and all the king’s officials with stones, though all the troops and the special guard were on David’s right and left.
If I had been David, hurt by my own son’s thirst for my throne and my blood, tired, grumpy, annoyed, and here comes this insignificant speck, hurling curses, stones, and dirt with reckless abandon, I feel like I would have aimed all my ire squarely at this new target that was totally within my power to annihilate. But David keeps his cool, and he keeps Shimei’s behavior in perspective—this is not his biggest issue, and God can speak to him through this man if He chooses, or God can shut Shimei up. David leaves Shimei to God.
2 Samuel 16:7-8 As he cursed, Shimei said, “Get out, get out, you murderer, you scoundrel! The LORD has repaid you for all the blood you shed in the household of Saul….”
Lord, Thank You for this day and this scripture. So often when I am frustrated and overwhelmed, I aim my ire at unintended targets, which always leads to regret. Thank You for showing me a better way. Give me the strength and grace to take it when needed. Amen.
2 Samuel 16:11 David then said to Abishai and all his officials, “My son, my own flesh and blood, is trying to kill me. How much more, then, this Benjamite! Leave him alone; let him curse, for the LORD has told him to.”
Have a blessed day.
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