A Work in Progress….

Genesis 25:24-25 When the time came for her to give birth, there were twin boys in her womb. The first to come out was red, and his whole body was like a hairy garment; so they named him Esau. 

Once again, I am scratching my head a bit at a “key Biblical figure.” I’m familiar with Bible stories, of course. I’ve heard the stories of Esau and Jacob. But somehow I always forget the bit about Jacob’s cunning and trickery. Those don’t seem like key descriptors for an important Biblical patriarch to me.

Genesis 25:26 After this, his brother came out, with his hand grasping Esau’s heel; so he was named Jacob. Isaac was sixty years old when Rebekah gave birth to them.

How is it that I keep forgetting how incredibly human and fallible and messy are these folks that God keeps using, and uses mightily for His work? Is it because when I originally learned about them as a youth, I was told (or told myself?) that God only uses those who are perfect? No way he could use me with all my flaws?

Genesis 25:27 The boys grew up, and Esau became a skillful hunter, a man of the open country, while Jacob was content to stay at home among the tents.

Precious Savior, Thank You for reminding me that Your Son is the only perfect one among humans. The rest of us are varying degrees of hot mess. And yet, You can and will and do use us, even in our messiness, but only if we allow. Help me to get out of Your way, to allow You to use me as Your hands and feet in this world that so desperately needs You. Help me, Jesus. Amen.

Genesis 25:28 Isaac, who had a taste for wild game, loved Esau, but Rebekah loved Jacob.

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Genesis 25:19-20 This is the account of the family line of Abraham’s son Isaac. Abraham became the father of Isaac, and Isaac was forty years old when he married Rebekah daughter of Bethuel the Aramean from Paddan Aram and sister of Laban the Aramean.

Isaac is the chosen son of Abraham. However, even Isaac and Rebekah had to wait 20 years for the fulfillment of their dream to have children. That’s a long time. I would have figured this child of promise would have had everything in life as soon as he thought of it.

Genesis 25:21 Isaac prayed to the Lord on behalf of his wife, because she was childless. The Lord answered his prayer, and his wife Rebekah became pregnant. 

That thought is rather ridiculous, I know. I’ve seen God work through the waiting. I’ve seen how faith is shaped and strengthened when “Not yet,” “Not like this,” “My plans, not yours” is the answer. It can be difficult and frustrating, but trust grows, as long as we keep our hearts focused on Him, our minds rooted in Him.

Genesis 25:22 The babies jostled each other within her, and she said, “Why is this happening to me?” So she went to inquire of the Lord.

Precious Savior, Forgive me when I get so wrapped up in my plans, my ways, my dreams that I get ahead of You, that I forget that I am here to praise You, worship You, shine Your light. Help me to be so deeply rooted in You that Your will IS my will. Help me, Jesus. Amen.

Genesis 25:23 The Lord said to her, “Two nations are in your womb, and two peoples from within you will be separated; one people will be stronger than the other, and the older will serve the younger.”

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Genesis 25:12-15 This is the account of the family line of Abraham’s son Ishmael, whom Sarah’s slave, Hagar the Egyptian, bore to Abraham. These are the names of the sons of Ishmael, listed in the order of their birth: Nebaioth the firstborn of Ishmael, Kedar, Adbeel, Mibsam, Mishma, Dumah, Massa, Hadad, Tema, Jetur, Naphish and Kedemah. 

Commentary says that Ishmael was a blessed man, even though he did not receive the Abrahamic covenant. I wonder if he felt that blessedness. Or was he so focused on the one thing he did not get–Abraham’s blessing, Abraham’s legacy–that he could not even see, could not appreciate the many blessings in his life.

Genesis 25:16 These were the sons of Ishmael, and these are the names of the twelve tribal rulers according to their settlements and camps. 

I know I’m guilty of getting so focused on the one thing I wanted that I didn’t get that I sometimes lose sight of all the many blessings that I do have. It’s a pretty human trait, unfortunately, one I’m still trying to figure out how to overcome, though I’m better now than I was.

Genesis 25:17 Ishmael lived a hundred and thirty-seven years. He breathed his last and died, and he was gathered to his people. 

Precious Savior, Thank You for the many, many blessings in our lives. Forgive us when we get so focused on the things we wanted and didn’t get that we forget to praise You for all the blessings You shower on us lavishly. Help us to praise You, even when we are disappointed. Help us to praise You, even when Your answer is no. Help us, Jesus. Amen.

Genesis 25:18 His descendants settled in the area from Havilah to Shur, near the eastern border of Egypt, as you go toward Ashur. And they lived in hostility toward all the tribes related to them.

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Genesis 25:5-7 Abraham left everything he owned to Isaac. But while he was still living, he gave gifts to the sons of his concubines and sent them away from his son Isaac to the land of the east. Abraham lived a hundred and seventy-five years.

Abraham was not a perfect man, but the Bible and commentary both say he was a good man, a godly man, a man worth emulating. And once again, I am reminded that my idea of who God uses in the Bible is incredibly faulty. I still have a hard time squaring the fact that Abraham, fallible, faulty, human Abraham, is God’s righteous one.

Genesis 25:8 Then Abraham breathed his last and died at a good old age, an old man and full of years; and he was gathered to his people.

Ultimately, it’s a good thing, this change in what I thought I knew. It means that God can use me, too–even with my messiness, my faults, my fallibility. It means that the fact that I’m not perfect, that I’m so very far from perfect doesn’t keep God from being able to use me if I will allow. Perfection is not a job requirement. In fact, I’m pretty sure perfection would make you unsuitable as God’s hands and feet.

Genesis 25:9-10 His sons Isaac and Ishmael buried him in the cave of Machpelah near Mamre, in the field of Ephron son of Zohar the Hittite, the field Abraham had bought from the Hittites. There Abraham was buried with his wife Sarah. 

Precious Savior, Even now, even after all my reading and studying, I am still surprised that Your people, the people You use, the people You call, aren’t perfect. They are human, messy, fallible. That fact brings me comfort, but I’m having trouble letting go of that paradigm. Help me–to let go of a false truth and to open myself up to being used as Your hands in feet wherever You need me. Help me, Jesus. Amen.

Genesis 25:11 After Abraham’s death, God blessed his son Isaac, who then lived near Beer Lahai Roi. 

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Genesis 25:1 Abraham had taken another wife, whose name was Keturah.  

I have so many thoughts at the moment. One very angry thought is directed at the writers of commentary, which lobbed this landmine when talking about Abraham’s remarriage and the birth of his other children, citing those additional births as “…a further demonstration that in Abraham’s marriage to Sarah, whatever fertility problems that existed were on the part of Sarah, not Abraham.”

Genesis 25:2 She bore him Zimran, Jokshan, Medan, Midian, Ishbak and Shuah. 

I am certain that that statement was written by a man who never loved a woman who struggled with infertility and pregnancy loss. It is a callus, insensitive, infuriating statement. It serves no Biblical purpose. It has no Biblical support. I cannot fathom why anyone thought that was an illustrative, instructive statement. Its sole purpose seems to place infertility blame. Why? How does that shine God’s light? It does not!

Genesis 25:3 Jokshan was the father of Sheba and Dedan; the descendants of Dedan were the Ashurites, the Letushites and the Leummites.

Precious Savior, So many have known the heartbreak and pain of infertility issues and pregnancy loss. Sarah, herself, knew that pain, and we saw the consequences (with Hagar and Ismael) of what happened when she tried to take matters into her own hands. Please be with all those who are stuck in the “blame game” of infertility, with all those who are dealing with the heartbreak that comes with infertility and pregnancy loss. Please help them, like Sarah and Abraham so long ago, to place their hope in You alone. Amen.

Genesis 25:4 The sons of Midian were Ephah, Epher, Hanok, Abida and Eldaah. All these were descendants of Keturah.

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Genesis 24:64 Rebekah also looked up and saw Isaac. She got down from her camel 

Sarah, Isaac’s mother, died three years before Isaac met and married Rebekah. Isaac was 40 years old at the time of this scripture. According to Jewish tradition, Rebekah was 14 when she married Isaac. Let that sink in a minute.

Genesis 24:65 and asked the servant, “Who is that man in the field coming to meet us?” “He is my master,” the servant answered. So she took her veil and covered herself.

This knowledge sent me down a bit of a rabbit hole this morning. According to a very quick Google search, it was not unusual for older men to marry younger women in the Bible. Boaz and Ruth are cited as an example. Boaz is 80. Ruth is 40. But Rebekah is so young. That’s a sticking point for me.

Genesis 24:66 Then the servant told Isaac all he had done. 

Precious Savior, It is so easy to judge according to the world’s moral compass. Rebekah is only 14, yet she marries Isaac, 40, and becomes “one of the most prominent women in the Bible.” I still don’t like the age gap. It’s seriously icky, yet it reminds me that 1. There were completely different cultural norms in Biblical times and 2. You can work all things for the good of those who love You, who are called according to Your purpose (Rom8:28). Thank You that Your ways are far beyond anything I can imagine (Is 55:8). Amen.

Genesis 24:67 Isaac brought her into the tent of his mother Sarah, and he married Rebekah. So she became his wife, and he loved her; and Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death.

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Genesis 24:60 And they blessed Rebekah and said to her, “Our sister, may you increase to thousands upon thousands; may your offspring possess the cities of their enemies.”

Once again I am scratching my head at commentary, particularly the comment that Rebekah loved Isaac without ever seeing him. I for one see no support for that statement in these lines. However, commentary does talk about God being outside of our feelings, and that is an idea that absolutely resonates with me.

Genesis 24:61 Then Rebekah and her attendants got ready and mounted the camels and went back with the man. So the servant took Rebekah and left.

Jesus is bigger, greater than my feelings, and I say that as a deeply emotional being. He doesn’t get caught up in my passions, my anxieties, my bitterness, my anger. He is the same yesterday, today, and forever (Heb 13:8). My emotions are not. So when the turbulence of my emotions are bringing me to my knees, I know I need to stand on Christ the solid rock. I can trust His firm foundation. The same cannot be said for my emotions.

Genesis 24:62 Now Isaac had come from Beer Lahai Roi, for he was living in the Negev. 

Precious Savior, Thank You for the wisdom of knowing that You are greater than my emotions, You are bigger than my fears, You are more powerful than any problem I face. My emotions can lead me astray. You never will. Thank You. Help me to trust You. Always. Amen.

Genesis 24:63 He went out to the field one evening to meditate, and as he looked up, he saw camels approaching.

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Genesis 24:56 But he said to them, “Do not detain me, now that the Lord has granted success to my journey. Send me on my way so I may go to my master.”

First of all, I want to say how thankful I am that they actually asked Rebekah whether she wanted to go, especially since they already accepted payment and sealed the deal on her behalf. I’m glad they asked. I’m glad she consented. I wonder what would have happened if she had said no.

Genesis 24:57 Then they said, “Let’s call the young woman and ask her about it.” 

Second, commentary says that when you decide to follow God’s path, the world will celebrate you but will also try to detain you, keep you from your goal. The implication of that comment is that the brother and the mother were trying to delay Rebekah’s godly choice with their request she stay ten more days or so, which is different from what the same commentary implied yesterday. Interesting.

Genesis 24:58 So they called Rebekah and asked her, “Will you go with this man?” “I will go,” she said.

Precious Savior, Thank You that I can read commentary, see what it has to say, hold it up against what I know, what I believe, seek additional support or information, and accept or reject that commentary. Thank You that I don’t read in a vacuum and that I have the intelligence to evaluate multiple sources and make up my own mind. Help me, always, to draw closer to You. Amen.

Genesis 24:59 So they sent their sister Rebekah on her way, along with her nurse and Abraham’s servant and his men.

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Genesis 24:52 When Abraham’s servant heard what they said, he bowed down to the ground before the Lord. 

Commentary posits that perhaps the brother and mother wanted to keep the servant and Rebekah there for ten days or so because of the amount of wealth so easily handed over upon the agreement for Rebekah to be wed to Isaac. Perhaps Laban wanted an opportunity to gain more treasure before his sister departed.

Genesis 24:53 Then the servant brought out gold and silver jewelry and articles of clothing and gave them to Rebekah; he also gave costly gifts to her brother and to her mother. 

I’ll agree that I don’t know much about Laban and his family, but my mind first went in a totally different direction. They had agreed that this situation–the servant finding Rebekah at the well, Rebekah generously giving water to the servant and all the camels–was a sign from God. They agreed to the marriage. They know the distance that must be traveled to the groom. I thought they just wanted to spend a little time with each other, digest what just happened, store up memories since they might not see Rebekah again.

Genesis 24:54 Then he and the men who were with him ate and drank and spent the night there. When they got up the next morning, he said, “Send me on my way to my master.”

Precious Savior, Only You know our true motives, the desires of our hearts that guide our thoughts, words, and actions. Help us, always, to react in ways that bring You praise and glory. Help us never to forget WHO we are and WHOSE we are, and help us to act accordingly. Amen.

Genesis 24:55 But her brother and her mother replied, “Let the young woman remain with us ten days or so; then you may go.”

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Genesis 24:47-48 “I asked her, ‘Whose daughter are you?’ “She said, ‘The daughter of Bethuel son of Nahor, whom Milkah bore to him.’ “Then I put the ring in her nose and the bracelets on her arms, and I bowed down and worshiped the Lord. I praised the Lord, the God of my master Abraham, who had led me on the right road to get the granddaughter of my master’s brother for his son. 

The thing that bothers my modern sensibilities about today’s verses is that it all seems so transactional. These are conversations had by the men, and Rebekah is just property to be bartered for. That certainly gets my hackles up, but I guess Rebekah would have just seen it as another day as a female at this time in this culture. However, it works out for her as she becomes, according to a quick Google search, “one of the most prominent women in the Bible.”

Genesis 24:49 Now if you will show kindness and faithfulness to my master, tell me; and if not, tell me, so I may know which way to turn.”

It reminds me of another story that we will get to shortly–that of Joseph and his brothers. Joseph, also, is bartered away with no say in the matter. He faces a long and winding road of heartache and hardship but eventually ends up in a place to save his family from famine. In my mind, these journeys have much in common.

Genesis 24:50 Laban and Bethuel answered, “This is from the Lord; we can say nothing to you one way or the other. 

Precious Savior, Thank You for showing me this similarity between Rebekah’s and Joseph’s journeys. Thank You for the ability to look deeper into Your word, look past what troubles me, and see Your lessons more clearly. Help me, as I ponder these stories, to understand the truths You are placing on my heart. Amen.

Genesis 24:51 Here is Rebekah; take her and go, and let her become the wife of your master’s son, as the Lord has directed.”

Have a blessed day.