Love must be sincere…. (devo reflection)

Romans 12:2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
I am a planner in many areas of my life. It works well for me much of the time. But it also means that I often enter a situation with a plan, an idea of what should happen, when, and how. And when I have those expectations and they are not met, it’s not always easy for me to adapt, to relax, to go with the flow.
Romans 12:3 …Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment….
In hindsight, I guess entering a situation with a rigid plan reflects a pretty high opinion of myself. I think situations should go according to my plan. I think life should bend to my will. I guess I am still working through how to have a plan so that I am not aimless, but keeping that plan flexible enough that I don’t come unglued when it doesn’t pan out the way I envisioned. Jesus help me.
Romans 12:10 Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.
Lord, Thank You for this day and for the reminder that my way is not Your way nor THE way. Help me learn to navigate life so that I am neither aimless with no expectations nor rigidly locked into my own plan. Help me to breathe and to be present with those I love and those you place in my life. Draw us closer to You. Amen.
Romans 12:9 Love must be sincere….
Have a blessed day.