Defining myself through the eyes of my Savior…. (devo reflection)

Proverbs 31:10 A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.
My caustic inner critic cackled as I read this morning’s scripture. Mentally, as I read through Proverbs 31:10-31, she pointed out all the ways I fall short of the description of “The Wife of Noble Character.” She delights in my mistakes and missteps, pointing them out, derisively, at every opportunity. She’s a real peach. Jesus, Help me!
Proverbs 31:11 Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.
I’m sure most people are able to take their inner critics with a grain of salt, tell them to “shut it” when they get mouthy, and move forward anyway. I’ve really had to concentrate on defining myself through the eyes of my precious Savior and not through the acerbic comments of my inner voice. Jesus, Help me!
Proverbs 31:28 Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her….
Lord, Thank You for this day and this scripture. Thank You for helping me to see that my inner critic doesn’t define me—You do. Thank You, in the words of a dear friend, for uniquely making me for this family that You have blessed me with, for equipping me with the tools I need to be a good wife to the hubs and mother to our boys. Help me to be the best wife and mother I can be to help this family whom I love so deeply find their way and their strength in You. Draw us closer. Amen.
Proverbs 31:25 She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.
Have a blessed day.