Genesis 38:15-16 When Judah saw her, he thought she was a prostitute, for she had covered her face. Not realizing that she was his daughter-in-law, he went over to her by the roadside and said, “Come now, let me sleep with you.” “And what will you give me to sleep with you?” she asked.
I must admit that I absolutely understand why Tamar did what she did here. Women had zero rights in this time. Her husband, Judah’s son, died. The second brother took her as a wife, as was custom, but also died before giving her an heir. Judah promised the third son, but he didn’t follow through. What choice did Tamar have?
Genesis 38:17 “I’ll send you a young goat from my flock,” he said. “Will you give me something as a pledge until you send it?” she asked.
I’m not saying what she did was right. I’m saying I understand her desperation. And I find it interesting that she is a Canaanite, and yet God seems to bless this plan/union because the child that is conceived is the direct ancestor to King David, who is the direct ancestor to Jesus.
Genesis 38:18 He said, “What pledge should I give you?” “Your seal and its cord, and the staff in your hand,” she answered. So he gave them to her and slept with her, and she became pregnant by him.
Precious Savior, It is safe to say that I do not always understand Your ways. Thank You for the deep and abiding trust that even if I don’t understand, even if I can’t see the ending, even if I have no idea how good can come from a situation, I know You. I trust You. I understand You are making a way that will be for my good and Your glory. You are making a way even if I cannot yet perceive it or understand it. Thank You, Jesus. Amen.
Genesis 38:19 After she left, she took off her veil and put on her widow’s clothes again.
Have a blessed day.