Exodus 18:17 Moses’ father-in-law replied, “What you are doing is not good.
Personally, it feels like a beautiful gift for Jethro to truly see Moses and care about him to the point that he says what he does in verses 17 and 18. “This isn’t good. This is too much. You shouldn’t be taking all this on alone” shows care and concern for both Moses and the people. To be seen so clearly and cared about so much is a gift.
Exodus 18:18 You and these people who come to you will only wear yourselves out. The work is too heavy for you; you cannot handle it alone.
I have learned that I want to feel seen, to feel known and cared for. Somewhere along the way, though, that got twisted up into “Keep your head down and work your butt off. It’s too much, but don’t complain. If someone cares enough to notice and help–Great! But if not, you’ve still got to do the work.” I’m learning, so incredibly slowly, to speak up for what I need, instead of just hoping someone notices.
Exodus 18:19a Listen now to me and I will give you some advice, and may God be with you.
Precious Savior, Help us to notice others and their toil, to help, and to give them wise counsel. But also help us to learn to advocate for ourselves. Help us to work together so that none of us wear ourselves out and we all shine for You. Amen.
Exodus 18:19b You must be the people’s representative before God and bring their disputes to him.
Have a blessed day.